Growing up abroad meant that my immediate family was my only family. No grandparents or cousins; just me, my brother and my parents. My dad is an only child so he was used to this however with four brothers and a sister, my mom always felt alone. Regardless, we stuck together through the rollercoaster of life.
When we moved to Texas, my dad proclaimed that this was it… Where he wanted to plant roots.
I began really trying to form long-term relationships for the first time in my life and learned that there are some people who will love you despite your imperfections. People who will love you like family.
When I met George, I felt he was one of these people. We immediately bonded over love-hate relationship with LA and sharing our life stories was easy.
George is the kind of guy that gets along with everybody. He is charismatic, warm-hearted and optimistic. But his life has been an uphill battle and that’s evident when he loses his cool with a drunk who shouts out stupid things as we walk by.
I remind him that it’s his day off and spending time in a Guatemalan jail would probably suck.
We are on our way to the pool that I visited earlier in the week during my search for natural springs. Our group includes his wife, their nephews, his equally charismatic brother Eddie, his finance and a couple of the people they work with.
I’ve been invited to spend time with the family on Easter. They treat me like a big sister and no matter how many times I reach for my wallet, I’m reminded that my money is no good.
It’s a mostly cloudy day and the water is ice-cold. Music is playing, families are barbecuing and the beer is as cold as the water. Women are covered up and luckily I brought a pair of shorts. All eyes are on me anyway as the tourist taking photos and stammering to put words together to form sentences.
This is a relaxing getaway just outside of La Antigua and I’m glad I get to enjoy it with my brothers, their friends and family.
Another local getaway: There is another pool set in a lush forest in the mountains called Parramos that is about an hour and half away or so. You can take a bus to get there (Q8/$1). This is a large retreat featuring several food and booze vendors, a large lake with paddle boat rentals and a big pool. The bus situation is weird up there so be sure to confirm the bus direction before boarding or you will end up in Iztapa. Which is OK if you happen to arrive during a Mayan ceremony.